Friday, March 16, 2007

If you're cranky and you know it.....wear the Pants

Every have one of those mornings that you just wake up cranky for no good reason? Well, yesterday was one of those for me. Not quite sure what I was cranky about. After all, I have much to be thankful for...but at times I find myself overwhelmed with work, being a mommy, wife, friend, selling a house, etc etc. I notice that work directly correlates to my crankiness & I need to do something about that immediately. I find myself working ridiculous hours at times & repeatedly tell myself "it is just a job", but the perfectionist in me wants to be able to do everything, even when it might cost me family time & this is NOT ok for me. I go through stages with this struggle frequently- a bit of a roller coaster if you will. So yesterday when I was cranky, I took the longest hot shower of my life, slipped into the Jeans & felt a sense of relief come over me. Ok this might sound a bit dramatic, but I swear when I put the jeans on, I felt the presence of my gals & knew you were all with me saying "breathe breathe". The rest of my day was good & I actually asked for help with my work. So in a nutshell, I am taking the steps I need to take care of myself (why is it that we often times take care of everyone else & neglect ourselves?. So I am wondering how many days in a row I can wear the Pants?? Hee hee. I have to keep reminding myself that life is short & that I should be enjoying every day. I have to take my own advice for once.

We might have a house offer so that is good news. More to come....

By the way, for those of you that haven't read the Sisterhood books-Run to the nearest store to get them. They are fabulous. I am on book 4 & it is superb. I know Liz was enjoying it as well & probably finished it by now. I am being a slow poke with my reading, but it is certainly a nice distraction from reality. Hope you all are well.

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